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2012-03-22

How Jewelers Can Learn To Be Better Decision Makers

How Jewelers Can Learn To Be Better Decision Makers
How Jewelers Can Learn To Be Better Decision Makers

How can jewelers learn to be better decision-makers?

Obviously running a jewelry store requires that you make countless decisions every day, but are they the right ones?

 

Are you at ease making the tough call or do you waffle?

Are you perpetually stuck in neutral as you go back and forth between options, or do you grab the reins and plot your course with decisive moves?

Always remember,

 

Decisiveness is one

of the foundational

aspects of leadership

 

Some of us never seem comfortable with the process while others seem resigned to just go with the flow and let fate make the ultimate call.

 

Either way, the good news is that there are steps you can take to get better at the process.

 

Six Ways To Be A Better Decision Maker

–  Rephrase the question.

When we mentally rephrase the question it opens our mind to different solutions.

Forcing yourself to think about the problem in different ways often reveals solutions you would have never considered.

This works surprisingly well in many situations whether you verbally rephrase or put pen to paper.

It just works.

 

– Give a little distance. 

Distance gives perspective.  Separate yourself from the emotion of the problem.

We often regret the snap decisions we make in the heat of the moment.

This is not a license to shelf an issue indefinitely but a given amount of time on emotionally charged issues brings clarity.

 

– List your options. 

If you have several options floating around in your head simply take a moment to write them down.

The human brain is extremely powerful, but we are woefully lacking in the ability to honestly multi-task.

The human brain is a problem-solving device, not a true multitasking computer.

We can do a few things at once only because we can switch between tasks very quickly.

Get the options out of your head and onto paper where you can concentrate on each option separately.

 

– Just the facts. 

Do your due diligence in researching the information on the issue.

Get off the emotional side of the equation and get to the solid facts.

Once you see the facts the right course of action often reveals itself.

Far too many of us get stuck on the continual emotional loop and never find a resolution to the problem.

 

– Go with your instincts.

Your instincts can often give you the correct course of action before your brain can rationally, logically figure it out.

There is a reason why you have been as successful as you have thus far in your career.

Experience, training, and past history benefit our instinctual decisions.

 

– Make the call. 

There are no certainties in life.

Seldom is one decision the make or breaks one in your life.

Whichever choice you make there will be parts of it you like and parts you don’t.

Still, you have to make the call!

 

Your team looks to you as their leader to make difficult decisions.

Will it always be the right one?  No.

Will it always be the most popular one?

No, seldom are the tough ones pleasing to everyone.

 

Nevertheless, it falls to us to analyze the situation before us and step up to the plate with a decision.

Once made, don’t regret it, don’t continue to rehash it over and over, just put it to rest and move on because there is another tough call waiting just ahead for you.

It can get easier though if you consider these steps in the process.

With a little practice, jewelers can learn to be better decision-makers.

 

Our “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show Episodes

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show
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Rod Worley
Rod Worley

The host of “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show – Jewelry Business Strategist –  President of Four Grainer LLC.  Author of the business books “A Reason To Chant,” and “A Reason to Chant – Jewelry Trade Edition.”  Rod lives in Atlanta with his wife and two almost-human cats.

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All Of Our Episodes

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show

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