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2011-10-06

First Steps To Breaking Out Of A Slump

First Steps To Breaking Out Of A Slump
First Steps To Breaking Out Of A Slump

You have finally come to grips with the fact that you are in a sales slump, and your sales manager has confirmed it, in a not so subtle way.

Now what?

Honestly admitting you are in a slump is really the first step to getting back on track.

If you do this right, if you are committed to it, you can actually be better, more successful than you were before!

 

First Steps To Breaking Out Of A Jewelry Sales Slump

Step 1 – Stop Making Excuses. 

Mentally stop the “if only’s”.

If only, the economy was better.

If only I had not gone to lunch when that big client came into the store.

If only my day off was Thursday vs Tuesday.

I have heard all of the excuses.

The tough love answer to your problem is this:

Control What You Can Control And Forget The Rest. 

 

The Merriam-Webster dictionary states that we have been using the word, “excuse” since the 13th century.

It is Middle English, from Anglo-French escuser, excuser, from Latin excusare, from ex- + causacause, explanation.

 

I honestly believe that people have been using it since the dawn of time.

“Sorry about my brother Abel, see I was carrying these rocks when I slipped and dropped them on him.”

I am sure that Adam and Eve didn’t buy the excuse either.

 

Step 2 – Set Your Ego Aside.

Be mentally and emotionally ready to be coach-able.

The more successful you have been at selling, the harder it is to set the ego aside and take feedback.

Ego is a huge part of what makes you a top performer in the first place.

If you cannot overcome this hurdle then just realize that your slump will be longer and in some cases, career-ending.

I have seen strong, competent jewelry sales professionals that simply would not, or perhaps could not, get past this step.

 

Step 3 – Get Back To Basics.

When you started selling jewelry you studied a specific selling process.

You practiced it over and over again until it was second nature.

As you gain success, it is human nature to start taking shortcuts.

 

Our ego tells us that we are too talented, too smart, and just too good to have to worry about the little details.

Dust off your selling process, and get back to it.

If you are honest with yourself, you will be amazed at how far off script you have traveled.

 

Step 4 – Find A Mentor. 

Many on the jewelry sales floor get some very basic sales training and then are left to fend for themselves.

You have to find a mentor to watch you go through a few presentations.

 

Have them observe how you communicate non verbally with the client.

Let them stand close enough to the presentation that they can actually hear your technique.

 

After the presentation, you have to be sure you are not as defensive as they give their evaluation.

Honest feedback is vital to getting back on track.

 

One of the difficult aspects of a sales slump is that if you consciously knew what you were doing differently, you would change it.

Realize that this slump is a “You Problem”. 

 

Don’t make excuses, set your ego aside, focus on the basics, and find a mentor to give you the unbiased feedback you need.

I know you can come out of this slump because you care enough to read this entire article.

That alone proves to me and should prove to you, that you care about your level of success and your career.

Now that you are committed, start to take the first steps to break out of this slump!

 

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  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
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  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
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  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
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  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show
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Rod Worley
Rod Worley

The host of “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show – Jewelry Business Strategist –  President of Four Grainer LLC.  Author of the business books “A Reason To Chant,” and “A Reason to Chant – Jewelry Trade Edition.”  Rod lives in Atlanta with his wife and two almost-human cats.

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show

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