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Jewelry Industry Management Consulting Firm

2011-08-22

Right Mental Attitude In Selling

Right Mental Attitude In Selling
Right Mental Attitude In Selling

You can tell the minute a jewelry sales professional picks up the telephone.

You can tell if they are having a good day or a bad day.  Their tone and the energy behind the telephone greeting says it all.

In sales, a mentally perceived bad day typically leads to lackluster sales.

The positive energy behind the counter sells.

Attitude combined with confidence makes the difference many times between success or the start of their next sales slump.

 

Many sales pros blame their attitude on the day. Often they say, “I am having a bad day”.

What they are really saying is that they have let other people get to their attitude or they have let other circumstances get to them mentally.

That is not only unjustifiable, it is a sign of mental weakness.

If you tell yourself you are having a bad day, I promise you it will happen, and if you tell yourself you are having a great day, then chances are . . . you will.

Attitude determines your level of success in business and life.

“Attitude determines altitude”

 

Do you want to change your attitude?  Develop a YES! attitude.  There is a subtle difference between a “positive” attitude and a “YES” attitude.

Both are great, but a “YES” is a bit more powerful because it assumes that everything will start with a “Yes”, even when it might not.

A “YES” attitude is more declarative. It tells people in a word that their expectations will be met, and somehow your answer to whatever they want or need will be in a positive format.

Everyone wants to hear “yes”, and if you think of yourself as a “yes” person, not only will you be in a positive frame of mind, but you will also have positive expectations.

 

I can feel the hesitation in your eyes as you read that paragraph.  “It can’t be that easy, it can’t be that simple”.  Well . . . honestly, it is just that easy.

Try it risk-free for 24 hours.

Give it a legitimate test both at work and at home.

If you are not convinced, please return it for a full refund, and pick up your, “It’s a bad day” view at the return counter as you start your next prolonged, self-induced sales slump.

 

Top Performers On Any Jewelry Sales Team Have Two Common Traits. 

First Trait.  

They believe that they can sell anyone, anything, at any time.

Second Trait.  

They enter each sales opportunity with a positive mental attitude.

 

Sales pros wear their emotions on their sleeves and across their face.  If they are having “a great day!”, then their faces literally beam with a wide smile and a positive body posture.

If not, then that is easily read as well by everyone around them.

 

Still Skeptical? 

Watch a sales pro who has had a sale, then sells the next client that they encounter.

By the time that they meet the third client in a row they believe, no actually, they are convinced in their heart they are going to close them.

Perception often becomes reality.

Remember that attitude is everything on the sales floor!

 

Our “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show Episodes

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show
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Rod Worley
Rod Worley

The host of “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show – Jewelry Business Strategist –  President of Four Grainer LLC.  Author of the business books “A Reason To Chant,” and “A Reason to Chant – Jewelry Trade Edition.”  Rod lives in Atlanta with his wife and two almost-human cats.

Article by Rod Worley / Sell Now!

All Of Our Episodes

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show

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