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2011-08-18

Sales Guts – Overcoming Risk And Rejection

Sales Guts - Overcoming Risk And Rejection
Sales Guts – Overcoming Risk And Rejection

No risk, no reward”, “No guts, no glory”, “No pain, no gain” are all cliche’s that we have heard over and over again.

They are all well and good in their appropriate place, but when it comes to selling jewelry, I believe a more accurate phrase should be:

“NO RISK – NO NOTHING”

Any sales professional who is unwilling to take risks should get out of sales.  A bold statement indeed, let me explain.

The risks in selling come down to two basic instinctual areas.

 

Sales Guts – Overcoming Risk and Rejection

Risk In Potential Reward.

Ask a sales professional why they did not ask for the add-on sale, and they often say they did not want to risk losing the first sale by appearing greedy.

That is an example of not taking the risk because you might lose the reward of the first sale.  The old adage of “One in the hand is worth two in the bush”, comes to mind here.

The associate settled for less, the store simply got less.

 

Another example of this type of risk involves selling higher ticket items.

Time and again, I have watched in utter amazement as an associate directed a client to a lesser valued jewelry item when the buying signals were clearly there to sell the more expensive item.  When asked why, they often reply, “I didn’t think they could afford the higher-priced item, but I knew I could close the cheaper one”.

The associate got their small “reward”, the store lost the additional profit they should have achieved.

 

Risk To Your Self Esteem In The Form Of Rejection.

The fear of rejection is the single biggest reason sales associates do not achieve higher sales results.

Rejection, unfortunately for many sales professionals, goes straight to their core confidence, and to who they are as a person.  They take the fact that someone didn’t make a particular jewelry purchase as a personal indictment of who they are as a person.

They will go to great lengths to actually avoid any type of rejection.

 

Why do sales professionals dislike calling their clients for upcoming special events?  They fear of hearing the rejection from a client they have already sold to in the past.

They also fear the risk of upsetting their client for future sales.

In this case, a double risk hit of

1) potential future reward with a,

2) potential self-esteem hit.

 

Now, do you understand why they will go to any lengths to avoid calling?

Time and again, I have watched associates give great presentations filled with accurate information, the client is giving positive buying signals, the price is right, there is motivation to purchase, but the associate will not tempt risking perceived personal rejection by asking for the sale.

Videotape from professional mystery shoppers across the country clearly shows the number one reason we don’t sell more. . . . . we simply will not ask for the sale . . . . the fear of rejection is too high to overcome.

Have the “Sales Guts” to take some risk to gain more than you ever thought was possible.  Step out of your comfort zone.

Take more chances than you dare, and you will make more sales than you ever expected!

 

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  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show
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The host of “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Radio Show – Jewelry Business Strategist –  President of Four Grainer LLC.  Author of the business books “A Reason To Chant,” and “A Reason to Chant – Jewelry Trade Edition.”  Rod lives in Atlanta with his wife and two almost-human cats.

Article by Rod Worley / Sell Now!

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  • Elle HIll - Founder and CEO of Hill & Co
  • #Lend Your Voice to the WJA
  • Dr. April Hayward - Diamond Producers Association Total Clarity Report
  • Atlanta Jewelry Show - Live Spring 2019
  • Georgia Jewelers Association Convention - Recorded Live
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - U.S. State Department Gets Tough On Sourcing
  • Liz Stamm - Director of Business Development for Virtual Diamond Boutique
  • Shane O'Neill - Vice President of Fruchtman Marketing
  • Ben Janowski - Janos Consultants, Pt 2
  • Ben Janowski - Founder of Janos Consulting
  • Yancy Weinrich - Senior Vice President of Reed Exhibitions
  • Mark Hanna - CMO Richline Group
  • Susan Wheeler - Jewelry Designer & Founder of the Chicago Jewelry Conference
  • Monica Stephenson - President of Anza Gems & iDazzle
  • Toby Pomeroy - Mercury-Free Mining Challenge
  • Avi Krawitz - Senior Analyst & News Editor, Rapaport Group
  • Jewelers Vigilance Committee - 2018 FTC Jewelry Guides
  • A.J. Tosyali - President of Benchmark Wedding Rings
  • David Bonaparte - President of Jewelers of America
  • Drew Lawsky - Show Director of Emerald Expositions Jewelry Group
  • Edahn Golan - Diamond Research, Analysis & Data
  • Brandee Dallow - President Fine Girl Luxury Brand Building & Communication
  • Kate Peterson - Performance Concepts Inc
  • Peter Smith - President of VIBHOR & Author of "Hiring Squirrels"
  • Marion Fasel - Founder of The Adventurine Magazine
  • Sally Morrison - 2018 GEM Award for Lifetime Achievement
  • Danielle Miele - Gem Gossip
  • Becky Stone - Diamonds in the Library
  • Aleah Arundale - Jewelers Helping Jewelers Facebook Group
  • Tiffany Stevens - CEO of Jewelers Vigilance Committee
  • Beth Bernstein - Bejeweled Magazine & Plan B Consulting
  • Brother Wolf Jewelry
  • Anish Desai - Star Gems & Custom Studio
  • Andie Weinman - CEO of Preferred Jewelers International
  • Brian Watkins - CEO of Ritani
  • Jimmy DeGroot - The Jewelry Marketing Guy & Jewelry Store Training
  • Embee Diamond Technologies - Sirius Star The World’s Brightest Diamond
  • Laura Stanley - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond At Stanley Jewelers Gemologist
  • Mike Botha - Cutting The Esperanza Diamond – Embee Diamond Technologies
  • Diane Robinson - Rough To Runway Huntress Jewelry Designer
  • Todd Reed - Raw Elegance Jewelry Designer
  • Pamela Froman - Get Crushed Jewelry Designer
  • Ron LeBlanc - The Gem Hunter Chronicles of Tanzania
  • Victoria Gomelsky - Editor-In-Chief of JCK Magazine
  • Linda Carlson - Author of “Advertising with Small Budgets for Big Results”
  • Matthew Perosi - CEO of Jewelers Website Advisory Group & Sapphire Collaborative
  • Ron LeBlanc of “Gem Hunt” on the Travel Channel Network
  • Marty Hurwitz - CEO of MVI Marketing
  • Live From JCK Talks 2015 Education Day
  • Trace Shelton - INDESIGN Magazine Editor-In-Chief
  • Peg Fitzpatrick - “The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users”
  • Jon Parker - DJP Executive Jewelry Search Consultant
  • Barbara Palumbo - Gumuchian Jewelry and Adornmentality.com Blog
  • Bryan Eisenberg - “Waiting for Your Cat to Bark? Persuading Customers When They Ignore Marketing”
  • Bryan Eisenberg - IdealSpot.com, “Buyer Legends. The Executive’s Storytelling Guide”
  • Paco Underhill - “What Women Want. The Science of Female Shopping”
  • Live from the JA New York Summer show
  • Rob Bates - Senior Editor of JCK Magazine
  • Laura Stanley of Stanley Jewelers Gemologist - AGS International Guild, Women’s Jewelry Assoc, & Jewelers for Children Charity
  • Chuck Goedtke - President of Swiss Brands, Inc - Internet Discounting & Do You Really Need To Carry Watches?
  • Matthew Tratner - Director of Membership and Sales for Jewelers of America
  • Michelle Graff of National Jeweler - Brands vs Non Brands, Jewelry With A Cause, & 10x Blog
  • Matt Stuller - Legendary C.E.O. of Stuller Inc
  • Interview with Doug Meadows of David Douglas Jewelers
  • Launching “Inside the Jewelry Trade” Online Radio Show

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